2019-12-29 - 3 days left in 2019

 

On Friday evening, I was feeling like having a hot bath to relax. My man poured hot water in the tub, added salts and a green tea bag. I lighted candles and put some classical music on. I sat down in the tub and it was so relaxing. My Man joined me for 15 minutes. We held and caressed each other. I stayed a bit longer and played with the little ducks for fun. My Man took pictures of me. I do enjoy and love our special intimacy as a couple. It feels so good and right to be together.

 

Yesterday, we drove to Picton (about 2 hours drive east of Toronto) to visit my long-time friends Gilles and Judy. I met Gilles in the early 1990s on a flight going from Toronto North Bay where we both lived. We became friends. And Gilles was the first straight man to whom I came out of the closet. And he was very accepting and understanding. In 1994, we went on a special trip «on the footstep of Thomas Jefferson »to visit Washington and the State of Virginia. At that time, he met a nice woman who became his wife few years later. Gilles moved to Toronto. When I moved to Ottawa, Gilles and Judy used his family in Ottawa few times per year and they used to stay with my partner and I. I still remember some good moments happening on. New-Year’s Eve and during those visits. Both retired and moved from Toronto to Prince-Edward County. My ex-partner and I visited them for a long weekend at least once a year. I was very proud to introduce them to my new partner Bruce. I knew that we would all get along very well. My friends have various interests common to ours: arts and painting, travelling, good human values. The drive there and back was good. We listened to music from my IPhone. And my Man held my hand most of the way.

 

This morning my Man came with me to the medical clinic to address a personal medical problem. We both waited to see the doctor. While he was in the exam room, I thought seriously about my health issue and the importance of living healthy. I want to take charge of my health to give me a better quality of life with my Man. The doctor prescribed me a new virtual system to monitor my blood sugar level and I will do everything necessary to keep it down by first monitoring it and then take appropriate actions. My personal Nurse Practitioner will also be happy with the outcome.

 

Thank you Bruce for being in my life and it gives me motivation to have better lifestyle habits and good health for both of us. I love you now and I want this to last as long as possible.